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11 traits men love (and 7 they don t) - Hack Spirit I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets.

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Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life . If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter . What do guys like in a woman? 11 traits men love (and 7 they don’t) Is it becoming a trend that men only seem to be interested in you for a short period of time? Don’t worry, many people have these worries from time to time. It’s completely normal. But if you think that it might have something to do with your personality, then it’s easy to fix. You just need to know a little about male psychology and what men look for in a woman. I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder of Hack Spirit, and I’ve been studying relationships and human psychology for many years now. I’m also a man, so I’m well-qualified to talk about what men want in a girlfriend. In this article, I’ll talk about the ten most important traits that men find attractive in a woman, and we’ll also talk about traits that men don’t find attractive. We have a lot to cover, so let’s get started. 11 things men find attractive in a woman. 1) Sexy femininity. Women tend to like strong, masculine men, and in the same vein, men like sexy, feminine women. But in today’s society, our definition of femininity can get a little fuzzy. Many of us misinterpret femininity as being passive and a pushover. This couldn’t be further from the truth. The fact is, despite the shift in roles between men and women, one thing remains true: The most important factor that attracts men to women is femininity. Being feminine is all about owning your sexual power. Every guy wants to be with a girl who has that powerful feminine look about her: you know, the look that could stop a train. When she walks in the room with confidence and everyone looks – guys love that. Maybe it’s not a look, maybe it’s an outfit, or your smile, or your hair. But there’s some feature about you that would make a guy stop and stare. Find out what it is and find a way to highlight it. It’ll forever be the story he tells: “I couldn’t help myself. When she walked into the room, I just stared.” And isn’t that the story you want to be told about you too? The bottom line is this: It’s about walking, sitting, talking, and moving with sexy confidence. It’s about flirting with that seductive, charming feminine beauty. A woman who understands the power of her femininity knows she is of high value, doesn’t need a man to take care of her, and is confident in who she truly is. That’s the kind of feminine female a man loves. 2) A sense of humor. No matter who you are and what sex you’re interested in, everybody is attracted to a person who can make them laugh. It’s no different for men. Research has even found that men like women who laugh at their jokes and can make them laugh, too. This doesn’t just go for telling funny jokes. After all, we’re not all naturally witty. But it’s about people who can laugh along together. When you can’t help but laugh in synchronicity, spending time together becomes exciting, positive, and fun. However, what men don’t like is when women constantly use humor that makes fun of them. So, if you can help it, try not to make jokes by teasing him. You might have the opposite effect of turning him off. You want to make him laugh, not reduce his self-confidence! 3) Confidence is a must. Oh, and you must be confident. You don’t have to be cocky, but you must know yourself, your body, and what you want. It’s easy for guys to be a part of your life when you have it together. He wants you to want him but not need him. There’s a difference. It’s called being clingy. So yes, the order just keeps getting taller, but nobody said dating was easy. And yes, you can be confident, funny, pretty, girly, and independent all in the same day. The bottom line is this: Any person becomes more attractive when they’re secure in their own skin. These kinds of people are less sensitive, not as jealous, and they’re more comfortable to be around. In short, there’s less toxicity when a person is accepting of themselves. The real question is, how can you really accept yourself? There are a lot of masterclasses, gurus, and courses out there that could help you with that. But I for one can vouch for this Love and Intimacy masterclass by Rudá Iandê, a shaman trusted by hundreds of other people globally. From him, I learned that confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself deeply. It comes from healing your emotional wounds and learning to be a complete person in yourself. When you create a healthy partnership with another person, you need to not need them, but they add to your life and you to theirs in a way that isn’t toxic. This free masterclass will reconnect you to that part of you that is complete so that you can attract a complete partner through your genuine confidence. By building yourself up and healing your sense of lack, you’ll exude a true radiance that can’t be bought or faked. And you don’t have to buy it – this masterclass is totally free. 4) Be adventurous. Relationships are meant to be fun. We don’t get involved in one to have the same old, boring routine over and over again. This is particularly the case when it comes to men. They love the excitement and trying new things. There are 2 different ways to be more adventurous: 1) Doing new activities. Go hiking on the weekend. Go to this favorite sporting event. Be open to anything he might be interested in and try new things. 2) Be adventurous in everyday life. When you go grocery shopping, have fun. Bring a bit of life to the situation. Be open to new situations. Adding a bit of excitement and flair to your daily life will improve any relationship. If you tend to avoid things like being outside or driving past the mall on a Saturday afternoon, you might want to broaden your horizons to find new adventures. Plus, the bonus here is that you’ll be so busy learning new things you’ll forget all about not having a date. And the other bonus is that when you’re too busy to care about finding a date, you almost always find a date. Guys love girls who are out there doing their thing. It all goes back to the confident, feminine requirements they look for in women. 5) Show your beautiful smile. There’s no getting around it. Men love a beautiful, sparkling smile. You might think that putting on long eyelashes or big red lipstick will get you the attention of a guy, but actually a smile will do more than they could put together. When you have a big, happy smile, not only does it show your confidence, but it makes you appear happy, friendly, and open. We just spoke about how men love excitement, well, a big, bright smile gives them that excitement they crave. There’s a reason research studies have found that humans are most attractive when they’re smiling. Now obviously there’s not much you can do to change your smile and how it looks, but what you can do is make sure you are smiling as much you can. A beautiful smile can do wonders. You just need to make sure you’re using it. 6) Be caring. Women are naturally more caring and empathic, so it’s time to use that to your advantage. Research has found that men find a kind, caring side as an important quality in a female.