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Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way? Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with an older man, and a bad experience has left me wondering if it's just the fantasy I like. Has anybody else ever felt like this? Any advice is much appreciated. Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question ! A female reader, anonymous , writes (7 December 2010): A female reader, anonymous , writes (2 December 2010): A male reader, oopslookout + , writes (26 November 2010): A male reader, anonymous , writes (26 November 2010): A male reader, oldermanlikesyngfems + , writes (20 November 2010): A female reader, anonymous , writes (7 November 2010): A female reader, anonymous , writes (28 October 2010): Good luck with your love life! A female reader, lizk + , writes (9 October 2010): I find myself very attracted to middle-aged men, as old as mid 50's. They tend to be left-wing, a bit scruffy, good natured and fairly quiet. Sometimes I am concerned over this because I worry it might be to do with the fact that I don't really get on with my father, and am looking for my ideal father figure in a potential romantic relationship. I just don't know. I do find men of this age more physically appealing also. A female reader, Zizzy + , writes (22 July 2010): Now I'm 24 and I like guys in their early thirties. I don't think I can date anyone my age or younger. A female reader, anonymous , writes (15 June 2010): A male reader, indn178 + , writes (8 June 2010): A female reader, anonymous , writes (29 April 2010): A reader, anonymous , writes (25 April 2010): A male reader, bharat mehta + , writes (7 January 2010): And, as a old man I am saying here, 'maturity' has nothing to do with age, but with intelligence. You can see good maturity in teen age also, because there is no fixed rule. So, think about your choice quite in logical order and not on emotional plane. May be you have bad experience with your same age person, but your experience cannot make any absolute rule also. Be patient, and allow second thought. I appreciate your question on the ground that basically you love 'maturity' and interpret that it is not fixed with age. A female reader, anonymous , writes (7 January 2010): A male reader, ian43uk + , writes (2 January 2010): All I would say is, please be very careful. A reader, anonymous , writes (29 October 2009): A reader, anonymous , writes (21 July 2009): A male reader, anonymous , writes (12 May 2009): A reader, anonymous , writes (11 January 2009): A male reader, Pegasus1963 + , writes (21 August 2008): A male reader, anonymous , writes (14 April 2008): I'm 48 and have always enjoyed the company of younger women. When I was 38 I dated a couple of 19 yr olds and when in my early 40's dated some ladies in their late 20's. Yes I have to admit that a lot of my interest in younger women is sexual, but it is also informative and fun and interesting talking to and spending time with someone so much younger, hearing their thoughts and views on life and love and, well, just everything. Currently dating a woman who is a year older than me andI'm bored to death. She's so damn mature and everything is about being an adult and conforming and business. Ok, maybe I'm immature for my ager, but I like to have fun, let loose and not worry about what people will think ( to a reasonable extent). Life is short,why live it according to other peoples rules and values? A female reader, anonymous , writes (1 April 2008): A female reader, anonymous , writes (14 February 2008): A female reader, anonymous , writes (29 January 2008): A female reader, anonymous , writes (21 January 2008): A male reader, anonymous , writes (16 January 2008): She is quite mature for her age, I am certainly not immature, I manage a large company, I do like younger clothing fashions and music but I think my girlfriend is attracted to my psychological strength & maturity. I am more worried in my thoughts of dying halfway through her life and leaving her alone in the world. I know she will find someone and move on but I still worry about the pain she will feel. I was in a relationship/marriage for 25 years earlier in my life to a woman my own age but her thinking aged too fast for my liking. A female reader, anonymous , writes (6 January 2008): Writer, I have felt this way and still am feeling it. I happen to be a 17 in love with a 43 year old man. I'm not in it because of the relationship with my father, immaturity of boys my age, or whatever. I'm in it for the love. My whole family has had some sort of an age difference with their lovers and I personally don't have a problem with it. Sure, some people may not approve, but it's just the way they were brought up & the way they think. I happen to be a happy, healthy young lady just enjoying life. The guy I'm with is NOT immature. there isn't anything wrong with him, I should know this kind of stuff. I'm friends with his ex's and they talk to me all of the time! Sure, that may sound a little weird to some of you, but not to me. I hope this helped. You will never be alone in the way you feel about older men, trust me! A reader, anonymous , writes (1 January 2008): I am nearly 40 years and have recently been engaged in a relationship with a young lady 20 years younger than me. The problem I seem to find is that people seem to look upon me as a bit of a wierdo. It bothers me on one level but I cant help how I feel for this beautiful young woman, My point is . is this wrong? A female reader, anonymous , writes (29 November 2007): A male reader, anonymous , writes (9 November 2007): The biological proof" for this age/maturity difference has never convinced me at all. I just knew a ton of girls my own age as a teenager who ignored the actually-mature boys, spent all their time around all the immature boys, and then they complained that all boys their age were just immature. Older men who are interested in teenage girls are immature themselves. No wonder they get along so well.

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